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Janice Anne Wheeler's avatar

My father, in his last year on earth, lost his ability to express himself, along with other faculties. That, I think, was the most frustrating for him. As a writer, I do think that would be unimaginable.

If there is no future then remembering the past is irrelevant. Thanks for a thought-provoking work.

J

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Deborah Essenburg's avatar

There are so many things I dislike about being older and forgetful. The annoyance of looking for my glasses, or forgetting my grocery list and sometimes items on it, even if I have it along. Harder things like events that my children remember with clarity and are lost to me. The losses outweigh the benefits. But I’m healthy happy and secure, and have the luxury of having a loving, understanding family. One benefit that I’ve recognized and appreciate is the ability to be in the moment. It’s easier. The things I used to worry about, the self-consciousness that plagued me—those have lessened to the point that I can be present, aware that every encounter, family gathering, special event, or conversation is to be enjoyed now. I feel myself reflecting on this in real time and how it enhances the moment. Whether I’ll remember it tomorrow is another question.

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